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Identity

Many people believe: “If I had more money, more time, more energy … then I could do what I want – and finally be the person I long to be.”


But that formula doesn’t work. Reality works the other way around:


  1. Be – define who you are.

  2. Do – act from that identity.

  3. Have – receive the results that follow.


Your identity is the root, your actions the trunk, your results the fruit.


Ask yourself:

  • Which pattern am I following?

  • Who do I choose to BE, regardless of what I have?


Write down one empowering identity sentence in the present tense:“I am someone who …”  (e.g. “I am someone who finishes what I start.”)


Repeat it. Live from it. Watch your actions and results follow.

 
 
 

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